Yo soy La Lay

adventures in family, faith, and Down syndrome

Dear EI Team

on October 24, 2016

Dear Karen, Karli, Lori, Suzanne, and Beth,

And also Kim, Rachel, Joan, Shannon, and Kate,

And Sue,

Look at you all!!  We have been so blessed with not just one, but two amazing Early Intervetion teams.  I had been so terrified to leave our old home because it would mean a new CFC and a new team of therapists.  We had an amazing team, who Tessa mostly liked, or at least tolerated, and some of the moms can be so negative about their experiences with therapists (and rightfully so).  So we when we moved, I was nervous that we couldn’t possibly hit the jackpot twice.

We did!

You all have been such a positive influence on Tessa and our family. You give great suggestions for modifications that make her path more accessible.  You help us help her and made it so easy to get the equipment that she needs.  But what has been the most influential is that way that each of you has talked to us about her and her unique strengths and challenges.  It’s never about kids with Down syndrome, it’s just about Tessa.

Too often, I hear moms distraught by the delays that their child is experiencing.  They lament the IFSP meetings where the therapists rattle off all of the things that the child isn’t doing.  None of you has ever done that to us.  We aren’t unrealistic; we know that she is delayed.  All of you have helped us navigate those feelings and accept that her timing is all that matters.

As we head off to school in a few short weeks, I’m again fearful of leaving the safety net of our EI team.  As you all keep telling me, she is ready for school, and she is going to love it.  But without your home visits and your detailed reports, and your suggestions for what we can do at home, I’m so nervous!  Her preschool teachers sure have big shoes to fill.

Thank you so much for what you do. You are overworked and underpaid, but so so loved.

All the best,

Tessa’s Mom

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