Yo soy La Lay

adventures in family, faith, and Down syndrome

Dear Tessa

on October 31, 2016

Dear Tessa,

I’ve been thinking a lot about what I want this to say.  Saved this one for last because it’s got a whole lot of emotions behind it.  Kept it short and sweet so that I don’t become a blubbering fool.

I didn’t know what it meant to be an advocate for someone until there was you.  I mean sure, I have rallied for family, for students, for classmates, coworkers, you name it.  But it all pales in comparison to my drive to be your champion.

There is no corner of my life that was not completely transformed by your very existence.

I want you to know that no matter how long the road is, I’m here for you.  My goal is to be your voice only as long as you need me to be.  All I want is for you to be happy, no matter what happy means for you.

I am not fearful of our future.  I am not worried about how far you will go, or where you might stumble, or how much work there is to do.  I know that there is much to think about and plan for.  I will be brave because you are worth it.

You don’t have to be more alike than different, but you can be if you want.  You don’t have to rock the 21st, but I think you already do.  You don’t have to be a Down syndrome superstar on YouTube or in the news for breaking down barriers.  But if you find a dream, let’s chase it. 

Girlfriend, I adore you.

Wuv yeeeewwww!

Mommy


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2 responses to “Dear Tessa

  1. She is just too cute for words.
    I have so loved watching her grow up from afar. She, and you, are something else 🙂

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