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Reacting Appropriately

And here is the difference that Down syndrome makes:

Belly sleeping must be something genetic.  From me to Ellie and now Tessa… we love it.  As Ellie has grown, she has embraced more of a “pass out sprawled as awkwardly as possible across the entire bed” approach to sleeping.  However, I still remember finding her sweet little diapered butt sticking up sky-high in the crib when she was an infant.  There are pictures, gobs of pictures, washed out in the terrible flash of an iPhone camera.  It was just darling.

(On a side note: how did we function before digital cameras?)

Tessa, too, loves the comfort of belly-sleeping.  But finding her with her knees tucked under her butt, rather than sprawled flat on the mattress, gives me a markedly different reaction.

It’s monumental.

It’s me rejoicing – she can! She can!! She can bring her knees up under her body.  She did it!!  The practice is working!  Miss Kate and Miss Rachel (OT and PT) will be so proud!  I’m so proud!!

Every milestone is a rockin’ celebration.  I don’t even get pictures of this stuff because I’m too excited to consider a camera.  Yesterday, Tessa found herself in the mirror during her bath.  I don’t have a clue when Ellie first stumbled upon her reflection, but yesterday, I sat and stared in awe while our little peanut shyly smiled at herself.

Monumental.

This is the challenge now, when there is a child born with obstacles… reacting appropriately to the successes of others.  Everything that other kids just kind of figure out takes her so much more.  And so commiserating when the momma of a typical child impatiently wonders when her child will be able to XYZ… it’s hard for me, okay?  It is.  It just is.

And now, cuteness:

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